Family happiness does not stop at the level of love of an ordinary person, but it is necessary to be skillful, considerate and patient to help each other know how to rely on the Three Jewels and always find the source of happiness. true happiness of married life in the Buddha’s Dharma.
The Buddha taught very carefully the duties of Buddhists and especially the responsibilities of each person in family life through the Good Birth Suttas or the Seven Types of Wife Suttas. These are basic suttas that are very practical and suitable for lay Buddhists, whether married or unmarried. In which the Buddha clearly taught the responsibilities and duties of a family member, whether father, mother, husband, wife or brother, children must be aware of and apply them in daily life. day to have a happy and peaceful family.
For married Buddhists, it is even more important to understand their responsibilities and roles in the family. What is the husband or wife who must often self-reflect and review their duties? Has each member of the family fulfilled their role for their loved ones in accordance with the Buddha’s teachings? Is the care and treatment of those close to you really with all your heart? These are the solid pillars to support the happy roof of a family home. Without consideration, understanding and good behavior, the foundation of love and happiness can never be. Therefore, the ancients said: “Understanding and Loving”.
Married Buddhists need to remember the meaning of married life and the affections of the person who has lived with them during the years of “bitter, salty togetherness”, not to lose this good predestined relationship. It will be very difficult to find later. The ancients also said: “If husband and wife respect each other like the day they first met, they will never have regrets in a lifetime of happiness.”
Love each other, mountains also climb,
Some rivers also wade and some passes pass.
Always keep the beautiful memories of the first day you met and respect each other for a long time. The ancients said: “Respecting each other is like the day we first met, we will live together until our heads turn gray and our teeth become long”. By doing so, the full meaning of the blessing when they come back to live together is “Hundred years of Happiness”.
Avoid sketchy and careless things in thoughts, words and daily activities for your loved ones that have boredom and contempt that will make happiness broken and miserable for two people. and children later.
When not begging in every way.
Okay, then brusquely ignore it.
At the same time, for Buddhists, family happiness does not just stop at the level of love of an ordinary worldly person, but it is necessary to be skillful, considerate and patient to help each other know how to rely on each other. Three Jewels and always find the source of true happiness of married life in the Buddha’s Dharma. Let’s help each other to progress in practice to gradually remove all small worries and worries in a family and move to a large peace of mind to help other families be as harmonious and peaceful as family. mine.