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The love of husband and wife, when they have tied their hair and love, not only wishes to live together until their heads turn white, but they also vow to go together until the end of the world.

Remember the Buddha’s teaching to resolve marital conflicts: learn to forgive, practice letting go

At one time, the Blessed One was dwelling among the Bhaggas, at Mount Sumsumara, in the Deer Park. Then the householder’s father Nakulà and the female householder Nakulà’s mother went to pay respects to the Blessed One. Sitting to one side, the householder’s father, Naku’s father, told the Blessed One:

Since the housewife, Nakulà’s mother, was brought here for me when I was a child, I have never had anything to infringe on my wife and children, not even my thoughts, let alone my body. Because, venerable sir, we want to see each other’s faces in this life, and we want to see each other’s faces in future lives as well.

The female householder, Nakulà’s mother, also said to the Blessed One:

World-Honored One, since I was brought here to the householder, Father Nakulà, when I was a child, I have never had anything to offend my husband, not even my thoughts, let alone my body. Because, venerable sir, we want to see each other’s faces in this life, and we want to see each other’s faces in future lives as well.

So, householders, when both husband and wife want to see each other’s faces in this life and also want to see each other’s faces in future lives, they both have faith, keep the same precepts, give alms together, and practice wisdom together. If you have wisdom, you will be able to see each other’s faces in this present life, and in future lives, you will also be able to see each other’s faces.

(DTKVN, Tang Branch I, Chapter 4, Product Source of Blessings, Part Worthy, VNCPHVN Published, 1996, p.668)

Discussion:

Every day, every day, we silently remind ourselves that life is impermanent, so living to love is not enough room for hatred.

Every day, every day, we silently remind ourselves that life is impermanent, so living to love is not enough room for hatred.

The love of husband and wife, when they have tied their hair and love, not only wishes to live together until their heads turn white, but they also vow to go together until the end of the world. This is also the wish, sincere wish and also the eternal refrain of all lovers. However, there is a big gap between dreams and reality. When they really live together, it’s not difficult for people to realize the fact that happiness is there, but it’s too fragile, hard to find but easy to lose.

Great for the Nakulà family, living together without anything infringing on each other even in thought. Of course they love each other but the heart of the matter is that they really understand each other. Love and mutual understanding are two extremely important factors in maintaining family happiness. They are mutual, closely related, and inseparable. Because of love without understanding, that love will become a bondage. There will not be enough strength to trust, love, sympathize, respect, forgive and tolerate… if we don’t really understand each other.

Cultivating the ingredients to nurture love in order to maintain family happiness, in the opinion of the Blessed One, both must strive to cultivate faith, morality, generosity, and wisdom. Trust in yourself and your partner; voluntarily maintain virtue, faithfulness and ironclad; rejoicing and forgiving each other’s mistakes; Understanding each other is really the secret to nurturing love to build a happy family.

In the context of social development, when the trend of divorce, broken family happiness is increasing as it is today, it is thought that the practice Buddha’s teachings As above, to heal the wounds and maintain family happiness is an indispensable manual for everyone, especially the children of Buddha.

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